Recently, I went out with my "liberated" college friends. Whom have conviction over their claims in the world. They mentioned to me that like men, women are also capable of "breaking" hearts and much worse than men sometimes. We are all JUST human beings. Whose minds are still yet to be opened to all the wickedness in the world.
Also recently, there has been a brawl between 2 famous TV personalities. One, who was tired from her trip, and was really frustrated with the flight company because of "incompetent" service, was really challenged to keep her poise. I would imagine, anyone in her situation would do the same. BUT, that doesn't give her the right to "belittle" such a person. The journalist, on the other hand, was concerned of how the woman was being treated. An impulse as well to save such a person. BUT the right to take a photo for whatever purpose is also wrong. To have just kindly ask "what's happening here" would have gone a more peaceful way.
If it was me, I honestly don't know what I could have done. To be the defending husband of the woman being taken the "photo" to come to her aid, or be the "audience" who would like to make a difference, or show the world what a certain kind of people treats another person.BUT definitely not resort to fist fight, because I am not fighter, I myself, I would admit honestly, am afraid of a fist fight. But impulse, as a human being might say otherwise.
I am so glad that I am struggling to keep myself humble with the grace of the Lord, our God.
How would you know if he/she likes you?
I can't believe I'm asking this..but I am. How would you know
The Dilemma:
So, it all started when I was all new in my previous work, the year was 2010. I had an office mate who got along quite well together. She found out that I was Chinese and wanted to introduce me to her female Chinese friend as well. My friend/office mate only got to the point of using my cellphone to text her, she replied though, but that was it. I didn't get to reply because I wasn't really fond of the idea how my friend tried to introduce us. Nevertheless, nothing happened after that.
Fast forward to 2012, a lot of things have happened since then. I just broke up with my less than a year relationship, and it's been almost a year now that we broke up, and have just been rejected by someone I was courting. SG on the other hand also just came from an "MU" relationship. I'm not entirely sure if the timing was perfect. I also resigned from my work with just less than a year there.
I got a text from my friend/ex-office mate asking me where I was, and that she was with SG, and they were somewhere near where I go home to. Even though I was not in the area, I replied to my friend that I was going. When I got there, I didn't know that SG was STILL with her MU relationship...my friend introduced me to her friends: "Juan(not my real name), meet my "friends," friends, meet Juan" very general right? Anyway, we met them outside of Angelo King and going back to the party, I was pretty sure it was a bit PDA for both SG and the guy...or, my friend told me that I was Chinese and felt threatened when I was introduced to her friends.
I was so sure, the guy couldn't get enough of SG, because he didn't leave her side. As the night progressed, my friend already wanted to go home, since I didn't know anybody at the party, I offered her a ride home as she lives nearby and I wanted to ask her about SG. This was also the first time I saw SG in personal.
Turns out, SG didn't want the relationship to progress anymore. She wanted it to stop because she was Chinese and the guy was Filipino, and thought that the relationship wasn't going to be smooth sailing anymore. The guy was also leaving the country for work. SG was only afraid of how to tell the guy.
Eventually, SG told him. I wasn't really sure if he took it quite well. Anyway, me and my friend who's friends with SG kept in touch and there was a few times when SG kept on asking my friend to text me and invite me on their gimicks together, just the 3 of us. Unfortunately, my friend was sometimes too lazy to text me. There was also a time, my friend mentioned that she asked her about me, kinda asked for an indirect background check on me as my friend would put it. I was always looking forward for that invite from my friend, I was sometimes even the one one who keeps asking her if she and SG was going to meet up during the weekends.
Alas! The day finally came where our friend invited us to Tagaytay! I was so psyched. On the day itself, my friend surprised me that 2 more of her friends wanted to come with us. I was so psyched that I didn't really care who else was going as long as I get to be with SG. Turns out, I'm glad her 2 friends came and made the trip more fun for all of us! :)
Since it was the first time we met, my friend had to seat at the passenger side, and SG had to sit at the back with her friends. As the trip progresses, her friends was trying to tease her about me. And she really wanted to get out of the car because she had no allies. She was quite embarrassed and I wasn't sure if her face went red or not because it was already dark. It was like that most of the trip.
At the end of the trip, my friend told me that her friends likes me for SG. But we all know, it all comes down to SG. During the trip back home, I kept on thinking how to get her phone number, until she got down of the car, I failed to get her number. When I got home, or already the next day, I added her in FB. She approved my request within the day, and I tried messaging her. She replied about 1 week later, while I was watching tv and left the computer on, the chat window popped out and saw her name. It was a short conversation, and I tried my best to ask for her number though FB, thankfully she gave her number.
I texted her a few days after, and it was about how SM Baguio tried to cut trees down to pave the way for their mall. It was the only thing I could think of, so that I could text her because she was working as a designer for SM as well. Turns out, she was weird-ed out about it according to my friend.
After a few weeks, the second time I get to be with her was when my friend from Singapore came back to the Philippines. Fortunately, dinner was going to be at MOA, I was glad that we were going to have it there so that I could invite her for dinner and meet my friends as well. At first, I really thought that there was only going to be a few of us, but as the night progressed, my friends kept on reminding that there was quite a few of who didn't know that there was going to be near so the crowd grew quite a lot. I was worried that if she knew how many people was going, she'd back out. I tried answering her and her friends question about how many people was going. She almost didn't went through because our friend got lazy and almost didn't want to push through.
When they finally came, they kept on teasing me that they thought there was only going to be one person who came from Singapore. I just let them feel comfortable as much as I could. After dinner, we transferred to a more drinking ambiance. We had quite a few drinks, with my friends, and on our way home, both she and our common friend really enjoyed the night. I was thankful that my friends made her feel welcome.
We're already texting by now, for some people, some indicators of interests are the following:
1. How fast she replies. Most importantly, she replies to your texts.
2. If she asks you questions and her replies have have smiley faces on it.
These are the most basic indicators. But of course, not all women are the same. And these indicators should not be based through texts alone.
The 3rd time we went out was again with her friends. We went to Sonia's Garden of Tagaytay. I wanted to fetch her, so..I tried insisting that I fetch her since I already know her place and wasn't 100% sure that I didn't exactly how to get to the meeting place, at least when I fetch her, I wouldn't be alone getting lost. This time too, her friends kinda forced her to sit in front with me. Most of the trip, her friends was still teasing her/us. The trip was great, as I get to know her more.
The 4th time we get to be together was just this week. She hasn't watched The Avengers movie, I already did, but I told her I haven't watched it as well. The original plan was supposed to invite her friends along. I was glad to hear that they already watched it, so this was going to be our first chance together alone. As usual, she didn't want me to fetch her and wanted just to meet where we're going to watch instead, I refused and made an excuse again for me to fetch her :)
The day was going ok, until I notice that she regularly crosses her hands. If I didn't know better, But I've researched that when one arm is crossed, and the other one not, that she's just shy...
Both her arms were crossed, so..what now? After we bought the tickets, we were kinda hungry and had merienda at Mann Hann. It was quite..interesting because she found out about this place from her friend who courted her before, I was a little bit skeptical and jokingly said: " dapat pala hindi tayo dito" and just laughed it off, she thought it bothered me being there together. We had a very interesting conversation as she was open to me about her past.
After having dinner, we walked around Vira Mall and went to one of my interest, going to a toy store. It was a good thing she was willing to go inside Toy Kingdom with me. I asked her what her hobbies or interest are, and she told me that she had a thing for fabric/color swatches collecting from different suppliers.
As our movie sched draws near, I invited her to timezone to have some fun, we raced a few rounds, and played air hockey, I tried to let her win but to no avail, I was just happy that she was there with me :)
We finally went inside the movie house, as we were watching the movie, I was really happy that she side comments during the movie and asks me some questions if there was something she doesn't understand.
The movie ended and I asked her if she was hungry or if she wanted to grab a snack before going home, she said she was still full but asked me afterwards if I was hungry, I said just a little bit, but tolerable, and wanted to bring her to a hole-in-the-wall restaurant near by instead. When we got there, sadly it was already closed and proceeded in going home.
I would always get down from the car when she gets down from the car, but alas she said: "huwag ka na bumaba...grabe sobrang bait mo na.." so I stopped there, and didn't get down, but eversince, I have been opening the door for her.
The 5th time we met was just yesterday, I wanted to bike alone because something was bothering me and just want to let it out. So I biked around MOA. I know she was working near by and texted her if we could meet up and grab a couple of snack before she goes home.
I got down from my bike and and we walked together going to KFC for dinner, She had 1 pc. original chicken and rice and side dish of mac salad. I on the other hand just had garden salad. She was a bit embarrassed I think, and me, when we saw each other what we were going to eat. I defended myself what's the use of biking if I'm not dieting, and finally got over it. We talked and I notice since the movie as well, that, she has a hard time looking straight at me, whenever I would always try my best to stare her in the eyes when I listen/talk to her, even when I'm driving! Whenever I bring her home inside the car, she wouldn't look at me, even if my eyes are on the road.
Although, when I bring her home everytime after 12, the guard would open the gates for her, and she would always look back and wave goodbye before going up. But on the 4th day we were together, we got home a little before 12 and the gate was still open and she just went straight through.
Anyway, that's about it...I know it's too early to tell, maybe like everyone else, who wouldn't want anyone for their feeling to be reciprocated right? I'm just happy. :)
The Dilemma:
So, it all started when I was all new in my previous work, the year was 2010. I had an office mate who got along quite well together. She found out that I was Chinese and wanted to introduce me to her female Chinese friend as well. My friend/office mate only got to the point of using my cellphone to text her, she replied though, but that was it. I didn't get to reply because I wasn't really fond of the idea how my friend tried to introduce us. Nevertheless, nothing happened after that.
Fast forward to 2012, a lot of things have happened since then. I just broke up with my less than a year relationship, and it's been almost a year now that we broke up, and have just been rejected by someone I was courting. SG on the other hand also just came from an "MU" relationship. I'm not entirely sure if the timing was perfect. I also resigned from my work with just less than a year there.
I got a text from my friend/ex-office mate asking me where I was, and that she was with SG, and they were somewhere near where I go home to. Even though I was not in the area, I replied to my friend that I was going. When I got there, I didn't know that SG was STILL with her MU relationship...my friend introduced me to her friends: "Juan(not my real name), meet my "friends," friends, meet Juan" very general right? Anyway, we met them outside of Angelo King and going back to the party, I was pretty sure it was a bit PDA for both SG and the guy...or, my friend told me that I was Chinese and felt threatened when I was introduced to her friends.
I was so sure, the guy couldn't get enough of SG, because he didn't leave her side. As the night progressed, my friend already wanted to go home, since I didn't know anybody at the party, I offered her a ride home as she lives nearby and I wanted to ask her about SG. This was also the first time I saw SG in personal.
Turns out, SG didn't want the relationship to progress anymore. She wanted it to stop because she was Chinese and the guy was Filipino, and thought that the relationship wasn't going to be smooth sailing anymore. The guy was also leaving the country for work. SG was only afraid of how to tell the guy.
Eventually, SG told him. I wasn't really sure if he took it quite well. Anyway, me and my friend who's friends with SG kept in touch and there was a few times when SG kept on asking my friend to text me and invite me on their gimicks together, just the 3 of us. Unfortunately, my friend was sometimes too lazy to text me. There was also a time, my friend mentioned that she asked her about me, kinda asked for an indirect background check on me as my friend would put it. I was always looking forward for that invite from my friend, I was sometimes even the one one who keeps asking her if she and SG was going to meet up during the weekends.
Alas! The day finally came where our friend invited us to Tagaytay! I was so psyched. On the day itself, my friend surprised me that 2 more of her friends wanted to come with us. I was so psyched that I didn't really care who else was going as long as I get to be with SG. Turns out, I'm glad her 2 friends came and made the trip more fun for all of us! :)
Since it was the first time we met, my friend had to seat at the passenger side, and SG had to sit at the back with her friends. As the trip progresses, her friends was trying to tease her about me. And she really wanted to get out of the car because she had no allies. She was quite embarrassed and I wasn't sure if her face went red or not because it was already dark. It was like that most of the trip.
At the end of the trip, my friend told me that her friends likes me for SG. But we all know, it all comes down to SG. During the trip back home, I kept on thinking how to get her phone number, until she got down of the car, I failed to get her number. When I got home, or already the next day, I added her in FB. She approved my request within the day, and I tried messaging her. She replied about 1 week later, while I was watching tv and left the computer on, the chat window popped out and saw her name. It was a short conversation, and I tried my best to ask for her number though FB, thankfully she gave her number.
I texted her a few days after, and it was about how SM Baguio tried to cut trees down to pave the way for their mall. It was the only thing I could think of, so that I could text her because she was working as a designer for SM as well. Turns out, she was weird-ed out about it according to my friend.
After a few weeks, the second time I get to be with her was when my friend from Singapore came back to the Philippines. Fortunately, dinner was going to be at MOA, I was glad that we were going to have it there so that I could invite her for dinner and meet my friends as well. At first, I really thought that there was only going to be a few of us, but as the night progressed, my friends kept on reminding that there was quite a few of who didn't know that there was going to be near so the crowd grew quite a lot. I was worried that if she knew how many people was going, she'd back out. I tried answering her and her friends question about how many people was going. She almost didn't went through because our friend got lazy and almost didn't want to push through.
When they finally came, they kept on teasing me that they thought there was only going to be one person who came from Singapore. I just let them feel comfortable as much as I could. After dinner, we transferred to a more drinking ambiance. We had quite a few drinks, with my friends, and on our way home, both she and our common friend really enjoyed the night. I was thankful that my friends made her feel welcome.
We're already texting by now, for some people, some indicators of interests are the following:
1. How fast she replies. Most importantly, she replies to your texts.
2. If she asks you questions and her replies have have smiley faces on it.
These are the most basic indicators. But of course, not all women are the same. And these indicators should not be based through texts alone.
The 3rd time we went out was again with her friends. We went to Sonia's Garden of Tagaytay. I wanted to fetch her, so..I tried insisting that I fetch her since I already know her place and wasn't 100% sure that I didn't exactly how to get to the meeting place, at least when I fetch her, I wouldn't be alone getting lost. This time too, her friends kinda forced her to sit in front with me. Most of the trip, her friends was still teasing her/us. The trip was great, as I get to know her more.
The 4th time we get to be together was just this week. She hasn't watched The Avengers movie, I already did, but I told her I haven't watched it as well. The original plan was supposed to invite her friends along. I was glad to hear that they already watched it, so this was going to be our first chance together alone. As usual, she didn't want me to fetch her and wanted just to meet where we're going to watch instead, I refused and made an excuse again for me to fetch her :)
The day was going ok, until I notice that she regularly crosses her hands. If I didn't know better, But I've researched that when one arm is crossed, and the other one not, that she's just shy...
Taken from:
http://felixker.com/love-relationship/how-to-tell-if-a-girl-is-not-interested-in-you/
Watch her body language. You can gather a lot about a girl by her body language and there are a lot of signs that will tell you she's interested. For example, if a girl has her torso towards you in an open manner this means she is confident talking with you. If she has a 'closed' body position (ie. legs crossed, arms in front of torso) she may be shy or nervous to talk to you. Watch for subtle signs in the girls face, if her eyes are dilating then she may really like you. If her lip quivers slightly when you look at her you can almost be sure she likes you.
Both her arms were crossed, so..what now? After we bought the tickets, we were kinda hungry and had merienda at Mann Hann. It was quite..interesting because she found out about this place from her friend who courted her before, I was a little bit skeptical and jokingly said: " dapat pala hindi tayo dito" and just laughed it off, she thought it bothered me being there together. We had a very interesting conversation as she was open to me about her past.
After having dinner, we walked around Vira Mall and went to one of my interest, going to a toy store. It was a good thing she was willing to go inside Toy Kingdom with me. I asked her what her hobbies or interest are, and she told me that she had a thing for fabric/color swatches collecting from different suppliers.
As our movie sched draws near, I invited her to timezone to have some fun, we raced a few rounds, and played air hockey, I tried to let her win but to no avail, I was just happy that she was there with me :)
We finally went inside the movie house, as we were watching the movie, I was really happy that she side comments during the movie and asks me some questions if there was something she doesn't understand.
The movie ended and I asked her if she was hungry or if she wanted to grab a snack before going home, she said she was still full but asked me afterwards if I was hungry, I said just a little bit, but tolerable, and wanted to bring her to a hole-in-the-wall restaurant near by instead. When we got there, sadly it was already closed and proceeded in going home.
I would always get down from the car when she gets down from the car, but alas she said: "huwag ka na bumaba...grabe sobrang bait mo na.." so I stopped there, and didn't get down, but eversince, I have been opening the door for her.
The 5th time we met was just yesterday, I wanted to bike alone because something was bothering me and just want to let it out. So I biked around MOA. I know she was working near by and texted her if we could meet up and grab a couple of snack before she goes home.
I got down from my bike and and we walked together going to KFC for dinner, She had 1 pc. original chicken and rice and side dish of mac salad. I on the other hand just had garden salad. She was a bit embarrassed I think, and me, when we saw each other what we were going to eat. I defended myself what's the use of biking if I'm not dieting, and finally got over it. We talked and I notice since the movie as well, that, she has a hard time looking straight at me, whenever I would always try my best to stare her in the eyes when I listen/talk to her, even when I'm driving! Whenever I bring her home inside the car, she wouldn't look at me, even if my eyes are on the road.
Although, when I bring her home everytime after 12, the guard would open the gates for her, and she would always look back and wave goodbye before going up. But on the 4th day we were together, we got home a little before 12 and the gate was still open and she just went straight through.
Anyway, that's about it...I know it's too early to tell, maybe like everyone else, who wouldn't want anyone for their feeling to be reciprocated right? I'm just happy. :)
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